Is my kid a narcissist, or is this normal teenage behavior?

Being self-focused, wanting attention, or having big ideas about the future does not by itself mean a teenager has narcissistic personality disorder. Some narcissistic traits can occur during development without becoming a personality disorder. Mayo Clinic

A clinical evaluation looks beyond isolated traits to persistent patterns and their impact on relationships and daily life. Repeatedly exploiting others, expecting special treatment, or having serious difficulty recognizing others’ needs warrants attention; however, an online checklist cannot explain the cause. Mayo Clinic

At home, focus on the specific behavior and the expectation: “Your needs matter, and so do everyone else’s.” Clear limits and opportunities to consider the consequences of their actions are more constructive than assigning a label. CDC

My work makes room for a teen’s perspective while also addressing how their choices affect others. Read about my background and approach and explore support for self-esteem and emotional regulation to learn more about the concerns we might work on together.